restrain one's grief and accord with inevitable changes

put a fire under a pile of faggots

Accumulate virtue and merit

accumulate merits and virtues

No fence against a flail.(No fence for ill fortune.)

accumulate gold and silver

a masculine woman

do something impossible

Ji Tong Luo Tong

Full of difficult and unpronounceable words

read by the light of bagged fireflies or the reflected light of snow

Cross examine teeth

hardship and destitution

destroy root and branch

See what happens

Full of difficult and unpronounceable words

follow a straight line(win success directly as one wishes)

be in a tight box(be on the horns of a dilemma)

all the old and recent sorrows

bright wine and brilliant lights