good counsels

Promote heaven and earth

The house is upside-down. -- there is no peace in the house

Benefit by mutual discussion

lead a hermit's life(live in retirement)

hate as much as one hates an enemy(hate like an enemy)

a fleabite

sail with every shift of wind

Jing Gong prays for rain

To swallow

Defamation destroys a man

live in the neighbourhood

be unsure whether to keep going or turn back

First increase

fierce storms

be prepared for danger in times of safety

Revenge oneself

try to get back the interest on one's loans

to alarm everyone; to scandalize the public

feel too ashamed to show one's face